Day 21
Ah….the Long weekend! It’s amazing how with one extra weekend day, one feels like there is time to slow down. So instead of my regular Saturday routine of creating my list of errands and figuring out the most efficient way of ensuring that all purchases were made in record time, I decided to enjoy the spring weather and walk to the library and then to the mailbox to deposit our completed Census.
The Census was a focus of a conversation last weekend in the Bruyns household. When it arrived (it was actually left hanging on the front door for a number of days) I had purposefully placed it on the piano, where all of the other “important” pieces of mail get placed. My husband dug it out from the pile and put in a place of honour on the island with a large post-it note. My daughter, when she read about the potential fine, decided last Sunday night that we would collaboratively complete it. My only responsibility in the whole process was to place it in the mailbox ~ thus the reason for today’s walk. I know that from an education lens we use the information in the census when collecting and analyzing the demographical information about our school community. That piece of data is but one component that we use when developing school improvement plans. The challenge in ever-changing neighbourhoods is that the information is shared in 5 year increments and therefore not always reflective of the current families that we are supporting.
I am assuming that the information collected in the Census is also used to inform other decisions in terms of community supports etc. And yet, in knowing the challenges that the Bruyns’ household had in terms of ensuring that ours was completed and submitted, I started to wonder what is in place for so many other families? For families who may not have a stable home? For our newcomer families who may not understand how to read or complete it. There was an English and a French version ~ but nothing in Arabic, Spanish or Korean. Just a morning thought.

As I started home, I noticed a brightly coloured yellow oriole as he swooped down and nestled into the branches of a dark purple lilac and my first reaction was to grab my phone and capture it. But, as this was a “rare” quiet walk (no phone, no music, no audiobook) I couldn’t take a picture. Within minutes, as I turned the corner, a brown squirrel was scurrying up the trunk of a tree. And at no point, did I even once think about capturing it. I wonder why that is? Do we automatically assume that only the bright and colourful are worth capturing?
I started to reflect on the work that we’ve been doing this year in terms of pedagogical documentation and the rich discussions we’ve been involved with. The core of each of those discussions has always been to ensure that what we are capturing is indeed reflective of growth in learning and not just bright, shining, photogenic pictures.
Who knows….maybe today was the first day that my brown squirrel who had been attempting to climb that brown trunk was finally successful? And my yellow oriole was repeating a landing gesture that was mastered months ago.
We need to keep our eyes open at all times, know the stages of our learning journeys and not be blinded by the colours.
Come write with me…..
About seven years ago we traveled to Toronto with my parents to enjoy the musical, Jersey Boys. A year ago, the same musical came to our local venue and I, once again, enjoyed every note, every dance move and the twists and turns woven into the story line of the lives of the famous four from Jersey. And then tonight, I held in my hand a ticket to see the original Jersey Boy, Frankie Valli in concert. I hadn’t really done the math on his age, until our waitress made some comment about him being 82. One quick Google search and indeed, the famous singer recently celebrated his 82nd birthday on May 3rd. I’ll admit that as we found our seats and waited for the lights to dim, I started to wonder what the next two hours were going to be like with the octogenarian serenading the crowd with hit songs from the last 50 years.
and ending with a conversation about how to assist a school team with selecting measurable and meaningful goals. I love days like this ~ embroiled in learning, thinking dialogues with several members of our team. Each opportunity for discussion pushes my thinking. But for some reason, the common thread, the moral of the story or the cute connecting themes are not rising to the surface.


Recently I saw this painted on a tree and immediately started to wonder about the story behind the message. Who wrote it and when? What were the circumstances behind sharing something, that not that long ago would have been shared in the delivery room, so publically? I could go off on a tangent about the loss of that wondrous moment when the gender of a baby was only announced at the moment of birth and not a few weeks after conception ~ but I’ll save that for another post entitled “What technology has stolen from us”. Back to my wonderings about the message on the tree….Was there a significance to this location? In my mind, I had envisioned a young woman coming to the park one night and writing the message on the tree and then the next day, bringing her husband to the spot, with his eyes covered, and then uncovering his eyes and revealing the exciting news about the gender of their unborn child. Or maybe this was the location where the husband proposed to his now pregnant wife. Fast forward to the future when the current unborn girl is now a 25 year old woman and her parents select this very location for her wedding picture. Oh how I hope that the location remains untouched by “progress”. Hmmmm… another topic for another post on another day!!
We’ve all been there I’m sure… You receive an invitation to an event, gladly accept and really have no idea what to expect and by the end of the night, you’re thanking your lucky stars that you attended. Friday night was one of the those nights as I attended the JARAGUA ARTISAN BENEFIT ~ Pupusas on the Patio.
As I make my way downstairs to my office (which is really just my laptop on the coffee table in front of the comfy couch) each night, I stop and smile at the family tree that my daughter created as a surprise last Mother’s Day. I can recall what was happening before and after photo was taken, the circumstances of the special celebrations or the “we just happened to have our camera close by” moments. Each photo is a story!
The ‘90s ushered in the sounds of New Country and Shania, Garth and Tim McGraw became household names. And although there may have been a few “favourites”, as identified by mom and dad which were released this century, I’m not sure that they sang along with too many Lady Gaga, Pink or Britney Spears hits.